Why can't anything go right?

First of all, Brayden's father is a jackass. I made a huge mistake by having a child with him but I wouldn't take Brayden back for anything. He has been slacking on seeing brayden since the day he was born and hasn't paid me a cent in child support. I gave up on trying to get him to see his son. Lately he's been calling once a month or so to ask if he can take him. I never say no unless we already have plans and I made sure to talk to him about notifying me in advance. He's pissed because I won't let him take Brayden overnight. Brayden doesn't know him well enough for that. I would like him to get to know his son before taking him for a long period of time. This is for my son's sake, not to make Mike mad. He thinks I am being completely unfair and that I treat him like shit. I think I'm being completely reasonable considering he's a deadbeat dad. He just pisses me off.

Second, Steven's ex-wife is at total BITCH! When they were going through their divorce she didn't let him see Gabby for a whole month. She even tried to get him to sign over his rights at one point. She told the judge she was afraid Steve was going to take Gabby and he set it up so that he could have supervised visitation for the first few months, he could take her to his apartment for a few hours the next few months, and after that he would be able to take her Sunday noon to Monday noon. Well, just recently we started taking her 10:00am to 5:00pm on Saturdays which is better than before but the court date was a year ago. We should be getting her overnight by now. She claims that because he missed a few days of seeing her that he should have to start all over again. She also claims that Gabby has been sick every time we bring her home which is total bullcrap. We are very clean people. She just tries to come up with every excuse possible not to let us see her. I'm so sick of all this shit.

Anyway, I just had to get all that out. Hooray for baby mama drama.

Rant complete.